I want to say that sucks. People say, I am sorry and that the person who is gone is in a better place. I say, you will never be the same and it stinks that you lost your mom, sister and dad etc.
I am going to make an effort to say “that sucks, that your brother is gone. I will miss them for you.”
I don’t think people realize how condescending it sounds to say, I am sure your person is in a better place.